Saturday, November 19, 2005
If Ever a Man So Great Walked it Would Be Him.... Dad
By Bitu Thomas
My dad passed away this January. It happened so suddenly that I couldn't see him on his death bed. He was given the best medical treatment, money could buy, yet God wanted him at His side and therefore 2 heart attacks on the same day took him away from us.
My dad was a Secretary.He had started out as a stenographer when he was 17 years old. Though very smart, he did not have enough cash to get through college and therefore always instilled in us that Education was a weapon.
He was always someone who surprised me with his ever increasing vocabulary in English. Just when I thought that I had learned it all and that I was one of the biggest scrabble gurus born, he would humble me by using a new word which I had never even heard of.
I would even go so far as to argue with him that such a word didn't exist until I would make myself check with the Oxford or Cambridge and find that it did exist and was there all along. I would be flabbergasted within but cool and composed outside.
As years passed, I grew to admire him and respect him so fastidiously that if there was ever anything I required that needed to be done with letters or drafts.. I felt that noone could do it better than him.
My first letter, my first Resume, my first leave letter..everything was done by him.
When he passed away I was chilled with shock. There was so much left for him to teach me, and then I heard a small voice whisper within me ...It was done ..I had learnt it all. He was within me waiting to be passed on to the next generation.
My dad passed away this January. It happened so suddenly that I couldn't see him on his death bed. He was given the best medical treatment, money could buy, yet God wanted him at His side and therefore 2 heart attacks on the same day took him away from us.
My dad was a Secretary.He had started out as a stenographer when he was 17 years old. Though very smart, he did not have enough cash to get through college and therefore always instilled in us that Education was a weapon.
He was always someone who surprised me with his ever increasing vocabulary in English. Just when I thought that I had learned it all and that I was one of the biggest scrabble gurus born, he would humble me by using a new word which I had never even heard of.
I would even go so far as to argue with him that such a word didn't exist until I would make myself check with the Oxford or Cambridge and find that it did exist and was there all along. I would be flabbergasted within but cool and composed outside.
As years passed, I grew to admire him and respect him so fastidiously that if there was ever anything I required that needed to be done with letters or drafts.. I felt that noone could do it better than him.
My first letter, my first Resume, my first leave letter..everything was done by him.
When he passed away I was chilled with shock. There was so much left for him to teach me, and then I heard a small voice whisper within me ...It was done ..I had learnt it all. He was within me waiting to be passed on to the next generation.